North Korean youth continue to practice analog romance, writing handwritten letters to share their feelings safely. Mobile phones exist, but strict rules and fears of inspection maintain this traditional approach.
In North Hamgyong province, many high school students and twenty-somethings without phones rely on letters to express emotions. Young men about to enter military service often send letters to loved ones, promising to return safely.
Even those with mobile phones prefer romance because authorities frequently check messages. Young people worry that private texts could cause public embarrassment or ridicule. Handwritten letters remain the safest way to communicate affection.
Analog romance also plays a role in marriage planning. One letter shared with the source emphasized choosing a partner based on personal qualities rather than wealth or social status. Letters provide space for thoughtful, honest conversations that might be difficult in person.
Economic challenges also reinforce the practice. Phones are expensive for many, while digital communication carries surveillance risks. Letters offer a private, low-cost method for emotional expression.
Experts say analog romance preserves cultural traditions and allows youth to communicate freely despite social restrictions. Many consider exchanging letters a pleasure unique to youth, creating intimacy and anticipation unavailable digitally.
As young North Koreans navigate limited technology and strict social oversight, analog romance endures. Handwritten letters remain the primary way to share emotions securely and meaningfully.
